The sentence, “Yes, you’re grounded from skipping!” just came out of my mouth.
What kind of dictatorship or regime am I running, you might ask.
In my defense, I had just said that the four year old was to lose her privileges for the evening because of poor behavior at the speech therapist’s.
She doesn’t even go to speech therapy but when Mr. Wonderful isn’t home to watch the Littles while I take the seven year old, my trek includes two extraneous (small) children.
In response to the privilege removal, she asked if that meant she was grounded from everything.
Of course I said yes, lured into a false sense of security by her innocent question.
That’s when she asked if she was grounded from skipping too, so to prove a point I said yes. Just to show the seriousness of privilege loss.
Just to show ’em who’s boss.
It’s all encompassing ’round these parts.
So we’re at the aforementioned speech therapy and I’m trying to type this while keeping an eye on the Littles while also trying to field calls from the dentist and the insurance company because my seven year old–the one with sensory issues, a latex allergy and a horrible dental experience to boot–has to have more work done.
For his safety (and probably everyone else’s), the new dentist won’t do the work without putting him under. And since anesthesia is apparently made out of gold dust, we’d like insurance to pay for this. Or at least help us out.
Some days I find myself running and gunning so hard that I crack. I get caught up in the busyness-phone calls, plumbers, a stinky smell coming from my fridge, a weird new sound my car makes, a call from the school-and it makes me so overwhelmed with the details and nastiness of life that I forget the goodness.
There is sweetness to life-even on the frustrating endless To Do List days if I just get my head out of my posterior.
As I tried to type that sentence for a good fifteen minutes, I find myself sighing. A lot. Which is ridiculous. I’m a grown woman in control of her own emotions, not some crazed teenager. I’ve already done that.
And now I hear the four year old singing a song that goes like this:
Everyone’s cranky! Tate is cranky and Jack is cranky, Mama’s cranky and Lucy’s cranky. Even Daddy’s cranky and he’s not here. And our dog Charlie is cranky. We all love, love, love to be cranky!
Oh the humanity!
I’m just a Mama trying her best, and today is one of those days where my best definitely does not feel like enough.
Which means it’s time to pack it in, order a pizza and give everyone, including myself, an early bedtime.
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©Copyright Meredith Shafer 2015
It sounds like chaos, but good chaos mostly! I hope the pizza and early bed time means that tomorrow will be a bit more calm then today!
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It’s good chaos when I focus on the good:) Everyone’s been asleep for awhile now so I’m starting to come around lol
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Sometimes it really is all about perspective! 🙂
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Isn’t that the truth!
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I think that the stars aligned with the crankiness constellation. Seems to be going around. Hang in there!
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Thank you! Maybe it’s the weather?? Glad to know I’m not alone here:)
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Nope. Planet Cranky is totally retrograde. I for one am pulling the covers over my head until tomorrow. 😛
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Sometimes you can’t win them all. The song was cute and funny though haha.
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Thanks! The song had me rolling!!!
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Loved the song! It was awesome. Don’t you love how their little subtle words (or in this case song) scream truth? Gotta love them! Lol.
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The song was pretty catchy…and telling lol!!
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